


Typical Need Not Apply



Well, Cristin over at Tiptoeing Through the Tulips nominated me for a Happiness 101 award. Normally I’m terrible at awards. In fact, I had a dream the other night that someone nominated me for a Lemonade Award and I couldn’t remember who. Note to self: get off the computer–you’re dreaming about the dang thing now.
So! This one is easy and totally in-keeping with my year-long quest to celebrate. I’m supposed to name ten things that make me happy.
1. At the top of the list has got to be the Saint’s victory over the Viking last night. Some dummy said the New Orleans needed this win to recover. I’d like to call BS on that one. We didn’t need this, but man on man are we enjoying it. One woman I follow on Twitter brought her grandmother’s ashes to the game. Seriously.
2. Whenever you walk past Charlie, he sticks his hand out to you like, “pick me up!” So cute.
3. Hours of work on Charlie’s shoulders has finally paid off and when I go to put the tray on his high chair, both arms come up in the air as opposed to lefty coming all the way up and righty lagging behind
4. Shoe shopping. Blissdom has become the ultimate shopping excuse. I’ve already bought more pairs than there are days of the conference. Don’t tell Hubby, OK?
5. My good friend has returned from a four month stay in Iraq all in one piece.
6. Another friend is having a baby in 2010!
7. My brother is getting married! Next month. He and his fiance have been dating for almost nine years. If you ask my brother why it took them so long, he’d say, “we don’t want to rush things.” Um, mission accomplished.
8. Jack Bauer–I’m on season five of 24 and I’m Lo-ving it!
9. How I Met Your Mother–even Hubby likes the show and I’m already quoting it.
10. My art. Good things are happening: Group shows, maybe some other things. I’d share more, but right now I’m a little gun-shy after my last experience. I’ll keep you posted.

Ten Blogs that Make me Happy (I’m naming some non-special needs peeps as a horizon-broadening exercise):
Nadine @ Velvet Tush
Erin @Mo Mommy
Tess @Truish Story
Ashley @Weehawken Kitchen
Sarah @ Semi-Desperate Housewife
Melissa @ What. Today. Looks. Like
Shelly @ The Decayed Gentlewoman
Toni @ Toni is Crazy
Jennie @ She Like Purple
Swistle @ Swistle
Whoo! That’s a lotta linkin’!
***** I wanted to edit this and add that no one should feel, ya know, obligated just because I linked them. I often get all tense at the idea of writing to a promp, so NO PRESSURE!****
I’m well-aware that some of you visit my blog because of your interest in alternatives. We are actively engaged in the alternative therapy ABR and people are naturally curious about that therapy and what is involved with it.
Well, I e-mailed ABR with questions about botox and back braces and I thought I’d share their answers with you guys. I’m going to summarize, though, because they have some fairly long explanations.
Firstly, I’d like to say that there is a lot of misinformation about ABR. ABR does not discourage parents from pursuing additional therapy if they would like and encourages us to have an open dialogue with our doctors about ABR. From my experience, Charlie’s doctors consider ABR a non-entity. They’ve never heard of it, don’t ask many questions, and seem satisfied once they hear that it is non-invasive. I dare say most of them immediately file it in what my father calls “the circular file.” That’s fine by me. I consider doctors resources and not all-knowing beings, so I don’t need them to keep abreast of every detail in Charlie’s life. That’s my job.
On the question of Botox, I received a two part answer. The first part of the answer was, “no, Botox is in no way counter-productive to ABR.” Good. I’d hate to be working against myself. The other part of the answer told me to be mindful that Botox is not FDA approved for children (no surprise there) and that at the annual meeting of the American Academy for Cerebral Palsy and Developmental Medicine, they were cautioned that little is known about the long-term effects of Botox. She also advised me that Botox is not really a long-term solution, which I knew.
Her comments on the scoliosis thing were really interesting. Basically, she said that something like a back brace is designed to reduce further spinal damage and compression. It does not, however, make a person any stronger. ABR seeks to make a person stronger and also to create space between the vertebrae. So, we could get the back brace if we want–our decision. She then sent me pictures of Charlie’s spine. The first set of pictures were taken during our initial visit to Montreal in October of 08. The second set in November of 09–roughly a year apart.

In this first picture you can see that Charlie’s spine doesn’t bend when he’s tilted to the side. This is abnormal. A normal spine is quite bendy. Having a fused, locked spine can really impede your ability to get things done.
In this picture you can see that Charlie’s spine is beginning to have some bend to it. It’s not perfect, but being able to balance in the sitting position has become a lot easier and this is part of the reason.
There are several other structural changes to Charlie’s body that I can see in these pictures, but I’ll save all that for when they send me our annual review. For now, I know that if I go with the back brace or the Botox then at least I won’t be working against myself. One less thing to worry about.
I'm Katy. I'm a wife, mom, and champion napper. My oldest son is four and has cerebral palsy, I have six month old b/b twins, and am expected my fourth baby in June of 2012. I consider myself living proof that God has a sense of humor. [Read More …]